That is an interesting question, or questions... And honestly, the last question confuses me because I have to think from a perspective that I can't really comprehend since I am not a man, but I am now very curious! You just Had to go and ask legitimate questions that I am compelled to appreciate and can't ignore. 😡 But I guess that is a question to which we'll never find an answer.
Hi tthank you for your comments. Yes I'm a male who by introspection know what other males may feel or think and dislike it. I mean masculinity is a great lie, May be we perceive males in the same way as you say that you don't "need or want them in the ways that straight women do." This is the very advantage of Lesbians, they don't need males. if males react inward in a sort of pride in their masculinity, they lie to themselves. The male body is imperfectly built for self reliance on manhood. I understand that males are of no sexual interest to you. I'm only attracted to Women but I can't tell by mere introspection if our love of Women is of the same nature. However, I notice in Lesbian orgasms a great number of similarities with what I feel in my fantacy orgasms. I wonder how a Lesbian like you compare what she feels towards Women with what a male like me feels.
You seem like an interesting human (male, yes?)...and I really don't dislike men, I just don't need or want them in the ways that heterosexual women do, but most of my friends throughout my life have been men, and I can see in them what is attractive but I'm just not attracted To them.
that because I don't have any memory of expressing those thoughts. I know I always mean what I say, but what the f*ck was I thinking? I hope I didn't seem rude. That is never my intention. Without looking back, I don't remember if you are male or female or if that was even established? It must be seeing my comments out of context that throws me off, but thank you for your response. I sincerely appreciate corresponding with someone who has more on their minds than just the sex. 😊
I don't pretend to have the same Lesbian perfection, I just try to emulate my idols who I venere. I worship Feminity and Lesbians that make me feel deeply Girlish as you say. We have something in common we both admire Girls and their Feminity. It is for this same reason that I'm deeply girlish but not gay since gay prefer males. I have also something else in common, we both don't like males to say the least.
You want lesbians to forget you're a man with your tongue...well, see...if you're a man with a man's tongue, we will never forget you're a man because you have a man's tongue!😏 That is why we're lesbians. We desire a woman's body (parts) and soul, because they are Not men. If men were that soft, and gentle, and used their tongue like a woman, they'd be gay. Sooo, if you're feeling that girlish...maybe your actually gay, and not a lesbian trapped in a man's body? 🤔 I'm jus' sayin'! 😊