Theirs a situation of nerves. Sometimes a woman can be so fine that she causes the guy who is not used to that to be all nerves. It happens to the best of us. If a beautiful woman does not make you nervous then you are not a man. You just have to get through the nerves and become equal to the task. This is where older men hold their own every time.
I have been shared by Daddy before and the younger guys usually aren’t up to the task. You are right about older guys. They are more secure and sure of themselves.